My questions for the ladies inspired by Ciara and Russell Wilson!!

 



First off I would like to say that I'm always proud when I see a black man and woman come together and form a family. It's something that seems rare, at least it's rarely showcased. Those examples need to be displayed more for our youth and the adults who have given up on the idea of love and companionship.

What I want to talk about is something that has been on social media, Ciara and Russell Wilson's engagement/ relationship. What I want to know is why must people bash her ex when she has clearly moved on? I don't get it, if she's happy in a new union why keep bringing up the past? The memes are starting to get old. I don't usually speak or even get involved in the media dominated topics, but I want to gain understanding from the ladies.

Why don't women take responsibility for dating and/ or attracting "bad" guys? I get tired of hearing the excuses. When is it time to grow up and admit that it might be you as well? A person can only put you through what you allow. Why do ladies have to be constantly dogged by a guy before she tries to double back for the dude who pursued her all along? Where's the honesty and self- evaluation? I don't want to seem like I'm attacking the ladies, I really am curious. Feel free to comment on here or on my Facebook or Instagram, I look forward to the dialogue.

I Know God got a plan for me!!!

I often hear people speak of God having a plan for their lives. It's a common theme with religious folks. I think that they are absolutely correct with their statement. One thing I want to address is how many of us have our own plans. We can't continue to delegate the tasks that we're destined for to other people. Personally I've set goals for myself but I've never fully committed to actually see them thru. I refuse to sit around and blame my short comings on God's timing, or anyone else. This is completely my fault. Turning 27 last week has truly been an awakening experience for me. I now more than ever want to live the way that I'm supposed to live, walking in my purpose. I understand that a half-hearted effort won't get me there. I'm up for the task and my goal is to inspire someone else to do the same. It's time to stop making excuses, stop blaming life's circumstances. Where you're from doesn't matter, it's time to step up. Set weekly and even daily goals to get where you want to be. Forget about yesterday, tomorrow will take care of itself all we have is the present moment!!!

Tithes Poem

   

 I can't understand how foolish people really are to give their money to these crooked churches and pastors, are we really this blind? I wrote this to all the Pastors who rob their members. In no way am I saying that all Pastors do that, hear me out!!!!

TITHES

They expect you to give all that you got 

and since "money is the root of all evil", you figure fuck it why not

Five dollars every time is really not that much

Although coming twice a week it starts to add up

But how do you expect them to put gas in the van

Begging for change can you blame the man

Spending his free time invested in youth

And he's really concerned with us knowing the "truth"

Well you see my truth, it goes in this order

When you drop me off at home, we don't even have water

And your daughter, she's concerned wanting me to get the bible verses right

But its pretty hard to recite at night when they just cut off your lights

So when you wonder why I decide to stay out at night on occasions

And you think I'm being rebellious when I reject your persuasions to go inside

it because of my pride, i'm not blaming you for our hard times

in all honesty the money wasn't mine

My father works hard for the wages he earn

It just seems like when we meet its always our turn

And its as if we always have to wait for ours in line

Our time never comes, you say its divine

Hundred fold is what you say we should expect

But really you have become our biggest threat

Now it's like a guilt trip, you know we can sew more

Its tough for you to grasp why were walking out the door

You're sure its cuz we're sinners, you've seen it all before 

Not truly recognizing that your members are mostly poor

Ten percent is all that you ask, but handing over more surely makes you glad

Aside from the fact that he might get mad, i don't really want to embarrass my dad

So when he asks whats wrong, why did my attendance cease

I told that its chaos and very little peace, plus I don't mind getting more sleep

All the taking just made me sick of it and I don't like being around hypocrites

So just recognize that I'm not disrespecting the lord

I just can't afford the fees anymore

If you ever wonder why you keep losing all your people

Don't write us off as the evil beneath you

Just recognize we could never be equal