Repay me with your life.

 

I saw a meme on social media today that made me wonder. Why is that every time a person gets in a relationship, they're reminded of who their ex was? I never understood why people thought that a man should stay with the woman he struggled with and vice versa. Let me rephrase that, if you have a happy/healthy relationship there is no need to explore other options. If you are unhappy in a situation it's in your best interest to work on it or part ways. I will admit my generation embraces being on to the next one. We rarely stick things out, viewing everything and everyone as disposable. The issue I have is the idea that since a person was down for you during hard times, you owe them your life. There is no way you should spend any time in a relationship that doesn't make you happy. Who came up with the you owe me mindset. I feel like it's ok to be selfish when you're dating, that's the only way you will find out who's for you. What do you guys think? Should we stay with a person who struggled wit us? Is it disloyal to move on?

THINGS CAN CHANGE FOR THE BETTER!!

When my mother passed away I felt like my world had ended. My heart contained a chronic pain that could not be explained. It caused me to reject any type of love people attempted to show me. I became very isolated because I didn't want to open up to anyone, I couldn't do it they would eventually hurt me was my mentality. I put a lock on my heart and threw the key in the trash. It's funny how time changes things, I'm now searching for that damn key/ I want to experience the fullness of love, the only thing that is truly priceless. I'm at a point where happiness is not an afterthought, this day seemed non-existent back then. I want to encourage anyone who is going thru something that is weighing on them. Trust that you can and will see better days, know that there are people who understand what you're experiencing. Don't deny the pain you feel, everything won't be ok all the time. Just know that you were built to win and you have what it takes!!!!