THINGS CAN CHANGE FOR THE BETTER!!

When my mother passed away I felt like my world had ended. My heart contained a chronic pain that could not be explained. It caused me to reject any type of love people attempted to show me. I became very isolated because I didn't want to open up to anyone, I couldn't do it they would eventually hurt me was my mentality. I put a lock on my heart and threw the key in the trash. It's funny how time changes things, I'm now searching for that damn key/ I want to experience the fullness of love, the only thing that is truly priceless. I'm at a point where happiness is not an afterthought, this day seemed non-existent back then. I want to encourage anyone who is going thru something that is weighing on them. Trust that you can and will see better days, know that there are people who understand what you're experiencing. Don't deny the pain you feel, everything won't be ok all the time. Just know that you were built to win and you have what it takes!!!!

The Beauty Bazaar 9/20

Here at Dirti Minds we embrace being different and unique, we're all about covering events that aren't typical. Last Sunday I had the pleasure of being a media invite to the Beauty Bazaar, it was definitely the place to be. The weather was very accommodating and the atmosphere and vibe was even better. Initially I didn't know what to expect leading up to the event, I just knew it would be a positive event for women of Detroit and surrounding areas. The person that coordinated the entire event was Camille Gavin, she's a Vision/Life coach, Business owner/Consultant, motivational speaker and a marketing guru. I walked away thoroughly impressed with her ability to plan and execute the details of the Beauty Bazaar.



There were vendors which included Fashion Junkie, Xcuse Me Boutique, Pure Romance by Denetra, J' Aroma Candles amongst others. A panel of beauty and health experts also were in attendance to share their vast knowledge and insight on a myriad of topics. DJ asset was the person in charge of keeping the guests festive and entertained and she did a great job. Radio personality and social media superstar Deelishis was the host and she was the perfect person to host the Beauty Bazaar.

The entire event was put on to highlight and promote businesses plus beauty and health services. Extreme Aviance Beauty Bar is a place that offers makeovers for the women in attendance. They provide make-up services, lashes, facials and they also do nails. Its a one stop shop if any lady has to achieve the perfect look. Nichole's Luxurious Extensions is a full service hair salon that will assist ladies with anything they need done to their hair. Right now there's only one location but Nichole does have a traveling assistant and she plans to have multiple locations in the future. The final business that was highlighted is Chloe's Chic Boutique. It is a perfect place to shop for women with style and flair. The owner Nikki loves fashion and was inspired to start her business for that reason alone. Chloe's offers one of a kind pieces that were displayed in the mini fashion show put on by the beautiful employees. Nikki says that she keeps up with the latest fashion trends by consulting the younger generation. She plans to have multiple locations with Atlanta and Los Angeles as her preferred destinations.

All three of the previous mentioned businesses are located at 28660 Southfield Rd. Below I will also list their social media handles. I encourage anyone looking for beauty services to visit the suites of these individuals, you won't be disappointed. Also any business owners looking for exposure and marketing help Camille Gavin is the lady to call. She offers a very affordable hour sit-down and consultation for her clients, you can reach her on social media. (@ Camille Gavin)

Follow the three previous mentioned businesses on Instagram @extremeaviance, @chloechicboutique and @nicholesluxuriousextensions.

Book Update (Blame It on The Music)

For the people who've been wondering about my book release, I still don't know exactly when it will come out. I am completely finished writing and it's also been edited. There is a hold up on my end because I keep learning more about self-publishing. I took this route because I wanted to be independent with my work. I decided to take my time because publishing is a business. I want to make the proper business decisions when it comes to my book. This project has been a stressful journey but I welcome the responsibility. I plan to become a wealthy, best selling author off of Blame It On The Music, so I will properly prepare. I'll admit I didn't know what the hell I was doing in the beginning and I'm still not completely savvy in this field. It's a humbling process that has prepared me for success. With all of that being said I hope people who are interested in my book still support it when I'm able to share it with the world. Also I have started a Go Fund Me campaign to assist with the publishing costs, I appreciate any help I can get.

Black History: August 29th (Remebering Micheal Jackson and Katrina)

 

  

Today is an important day in world history. Its the day that the King of Music Micheal Jackson was born. This guy left a great void when he passed away. He is a person who was vilified while alive and he's celebrated in his death. Despite the alleged controversy surrounding Micheal, his music will live forever.

   

Also a tragedy took place on this day ten years ago, August 29, 2005 Hurricane Katrina struck New Orleans, Louisiana. It was a deadly disaster, approximately 1,833 people lost their lives as a result. I can still remember the images of dead bodies floating, survivors grabbing anything they could to float on. They were literally holding on for their lives, the roof of the Superdome barely stayed in place. So many people lost their homes, belongings and loved ones. It was a reminder that the government could care less about the impoverished blacks who dwell in the ghettos across the country, in my opinion. Kanye West spoke out and voiced his thoughts saying, "George Bush doesn't care about black people." So many people had to leave their hometown and live all over the country.  The media covered the entire thing as if it was a movie. The people of New Orleans will never fully recover from the tragedy.






                                           

Throwback Thursday!

         Back In the Day

 

 

           One of the things that I miss about my childhood is the consistency. Back then we didn't have to worry about having time to hang out, it was routine. Our parents didn't have to kick us out the house, we often begged to go. There was no worrying about getting in shape, we ran around from sun up to sun down. There was a new adventure each and every day. Everybody stayed outside as late as we could and woke up as early as possible, just to get out the crib and continue the fun. The summers were epic all the time compared to now. We rode bikes like it was a sport. There was no urge to seek adventure because it always showed up unannounced. I can't believe we were all in a rush to grow up, this adult thing sucks. Some days I sit and wish I was a kid again!!!

Sipping lean and popping bars; Unhealthy trends

 

What's up with these young people who feel like it's cool and trendy to basically become dope fiends? The past couple of months I have been thinking about the glorification of drug use and abuse. I recently volunteered to coach in a youth basketball league and one of my players added me on Facebook. The first thing that I see when I view his page was a red cup full of lean (cough syrup/sprite). These kids are now following trends that says its cool to take prescription pills and drink lean to get high. We've all seen the health risks that these poor choices present, a few entertainers have lost their lives as a result. I'm from the hood so I know how easy it is to get almost any drug, but how has it become a recreational phenomena? Are the rappers/entertainers responsible? I will say that they play a part in the glorification of certain trends, some good, some bad. I know that its getting out of hand and I hate to see the youth led down this destructive path. Let me know what you think about this subject. Can we blame it on the music? Should rappers be held accountable for their influence (persuasion) of drug abuse amongst the youth? Does this issue fall solely on the individual or their parents? What can be done to reverse these trends?

I Know God got a plan for me!!!

I often hear people speak of God having a plan for their lives. It's a common theme with religious folks. I think that they are absolutely correct with their statement. One thing I want to address is how many of us have our own plans. We can't continue to delegate the tasks that we're destined for to other people. Personally I've set goals for myself but I've never fully committed to actually see them thru. I refuse to sit around and blame my short comings on God's timing, or anyone else. This is completely my fault. Turning 27 last week has truly been an awakening experience for me. I now more than ever want to live the way that I'm supposed to live, walking in my purpose. I understand that a half-hearted effort won't get me there. I'm up for the task and my goal is to inspire someone else to do the same. It's time to stop making excuses, stop blaming life's circumstances. Where you're from doesn't matter, it's time to step up. Set weekly and even daily goals to get where you want to be. Forget about yesterday, tomorrow will take care of itself all we have is the present moment!!!